From the moment you announce your engagement you’ll have an army of friends and family asking questions and making suggestions. Everyone will have a different opinion on the most important aspects of the day. For some it will be the dress for others the venue or food and drink. Some will argue in favour of a small, intimate wedding, while others will feel that a wedding is an opportunity to be extravagant. My advice to you as you plan your big day is to decide on the things that are important to you. Of course it is important that you take into account the feelings and opinions of those close to you, but you must remember it is your day and your desires are most important.